Friday, July 19, 2019
Eulogy for Son :: Eulogies Eulogy
Eulogy for Son The Death of a Child â⬠¦ Not many people realize that the death of a child is NOT in accordance to Godââ¬â¢s NORMAL scheme of things. It is unnatural. God did not mean for a child to go first. A child buries the parent. Not the parent buries the child. Most people do NOT experience the pain and devastation of the death of a child. And I truly hope no parent will ever feel the death of their child because they do not deserve it. The pain and devastation are indescribable â⬠¦ and single persons ââ¬â and even parents ââ¬â will never feel this devastation until they experience losing a child themselves. If you love your child, the death of your child is more painful than the death of any of your loved ones, including oneââ¬â¢s own parents. And because of this devastation, I do not wish this pain even to my enemies. I have felt the pain of the loss of a Sister; have felt the pain of the death of my Mother, and felt the death of my Father. I know how it feels. I experienced it. It is painful, looking at those old kind folks who bore you; who took care of you; went through all kinds of sacrifices and pains just to look after you for years and years, until one day the child stood on oneââ¬â¢s own two feet, and then â⬠¦ there they are, the parents, helpless and lifeless in front of you. Minou, Cyrusââ¬â¢ Mother, describes the death of her Father as a deep stab, like a bullet in the heart that pierces the body deeply. The deaths of my Sister, of my Mother and my Father were like Minouââ¬â¢s Fatherââ¬â¢s death, deep, painful, sad â⬠¦ Then, the pain and sadness are gone. They remain a fond memory of the good things we did together. Our deaths as parents would be something like this. Mostly the fond memories of things we did together; and that as parents and as a family, we did what we had to do. We as parents have become older, and we lived our lives. It is now our Childrenââ¬â¢s turn to live theirs and hope, as parents, we did most of what we had to do as God had wished us. When we return to our Creator, itââ¬â¢s okay because we lived our lives â⬠¦ we have fulfilled our lives.
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